Yesterday, I attended the Cover to Cover Book Club’s monthly
book discussion group at the Boone County Senior Services, Inc. building in
Lebanon, Indiana. The facilitator of the club is Kay Martin (totally related,)
and the group has 30 members which about 15 to 20 people typically attend. One
of the missions of the club is to read and experience different genres and
subgenres. This month’s selection The
Glass Castle by Jeannette Walls, which fell under the nonfiction genre of
memoirs with a subgenre of coming of age, as explained by the facilitator.
I actually arrived at the event early because I was
recruited to help set up. I met with one of the other members, and our jobs
were to set out the Goldfish crackers, make the coffee, and setup the table. I
chose a seat off to the side because I was not going to be an active
participant and preferred to just observe unobtrusively without taking credit
for my pouring of the Goldfish crackers into a larger bowl.
There was about twelve participants at this particular
meeting. They were all women who I would assume use and are familiar with the
services of the Boone County senior’s center. (I wasn’t about to ask for the
ladies’ ages or make any assumptions on that.) All of the attendees seemed
familiar and comfortable with each other as they had a lot of catch up banter
before the discussion officially took place.
The facilitator announced the official start of the
discussion after giving time for any late stragglers. She made a couple of
announcements and mentioned that a couple of the regulars weren’t going to be
there. Then, she introduced me - first on a personal level and then told them
my purpose for being there. Then she pulled out a notebook where she had
written extensive notes on the book. I noticed that other people also had
brought notebooks and/or had pages in the book marked. She began by explaining
the genres that this book fell under before launching into her opening question
for the group. The questions she asked throughout the meeting were both open-ended,
multiple part, and yes/no questions that lent themselves to further discussion.
At one point, she said, “Tell me about what you thought the title of the book
means,” which served the purpose of making the participants reflect on the
overall meaning of the book. The line of questioning allowed them to discuss
themes and symbolism as well as relating what they had read to other books. The
group was essentially offering readers’ advisory for each other based on the
type of book they were reading.
I will note that I had not read the book, but I was familiar
with the story from having seen the author on an episode of Oprah and other
interviews. This helped me understand some of the thoughts and reflections that
the group was being asked about and commenting on.
The Cover to Cover Book Club members were active
participants right from the beginning. There seemed to be no hesitation to
speak from the majority of the members right out of the gate. They were respectful
of whoever was speaking at the moment without talking over or interrupting the
speaker. Many times, there were expressions of agreement such as, “Oh, yes,”
and “Mmm hmm.” I noticed that the facilitator and the members often praised
each other on the points that others were making. I was hoping to witness a
disagreement to see how that was handled, but everyone seemed to be on the same
page. I wondered if that was because this was a nonfiction title. However, they
did make inferences into how the real-life characters may have been thinking or
what led to some of the decisions they made. I also noticed that no one openly
criticized the book.
Sometimes someone would mention an occurrence in the book
that would inspire them to tell a personal anecdote about themselves. These
moments would also cause the members to speak in small groups amongst
themselves. For instance, a discussion about a butter and sugar mixture had
them all talking about variations of something similar that they used to eat,
which broke off into different segments of conversations.
The facilitator only had to bring the group back to the
topic a few times. She employed a device where she had pulled quotes from the
author’s mother that the facilitator called “Momisms.” She had a list of these
quotes and would often go back to them to brought the group back to the topic
of the book.
One participant was more outspoken than others. She often
was the first to answer and had commentary on just about everything said. I
didn’t find her pushy or notice anyone seeming upset at her, but it was obvious
that she was one of the more dominant members of the club. The facilitator
mentioned to me later that she tries to reign her in to let others speak.
Regardless, the points that this woman made were well thought out and added to
the discussion in a non-disruptive way. On the flipside, I noticed that one
woman didn’t seem to speak as much. I couldn’t recall anything that she had
spoken, but I noticed at one point that she began to speak but didn’t get her
words out before someone else started to speak. She didn’t try to contribute
after that moment. That could be an area that the facilitator should take
notice and direct other members in a non-threatening way such as, “I believe
so-&-so was about to make a point.”
The meeting lasted a little over an hour. The next book was
announced. The facilitator said that she wanted to do a classic and that the
group was able to get a good deal on the books for the next discussion. After I
carried a few sacks of books in from the car, the group was told that they were
going to read Jane Austen’s Pride and
Prejudice. The group were excited by the title and loved the way the cover
of the book looked. Before they adjourned, we took a few group photos and went
our separate ways.
Chase,
ReplyDeleteIt would definitely seem that a discussion-question based scenario worked very well with this particular group and in this situation! Especially when there is the willingness to share stories from one's own life and history with the others. It's unfortunate that a member seemed uncomfortable attempting to speak once spoken over, but hopefully there will be a chance for her to share in the future. I have been part of groups before where certain people never talk, but, strangely enough, that is what makes them feel the most comfortable. They simply like being there. They'll contribute only when they feel like they really should, which can strange for the rest of us, who often feel the need to fill the silence.
I noticed what Sarah mentioned in the book club I attended, that some folks are just happy mostly listening and attending, but your story, Chase, makes me want to be mindful of making sure everyone has a chance to talk in the book clubs I host. I haven't noticed any members getting preempted in their comments, but maybe I haven't been paying enough attention ...
ReplyDeleteHi Chase,
ReplyDeleteDo you know what the age limit for "senior" is in this group? I'm only asking because I live relatively close to Lebanon and if I'm referring individuals to local book clubs, I don't want to send a 50 year old to this group if he/she is too "young." It does sound like a good group! I'll admit that the initial number of "30 members" shocked me a little - but obviously, they don't all show up at the same time, and 12 is a good, manageable number. Was Kay a librarian somewhere? Her name sounds familiar.
Hi Chase! Your experience was much more formal than mine. I really liked that my group were just friends getting together, drinking a beer and talking about a book without any kind of facilitator to keep people on track. It was very interesting to read about your experience. I told my group who I was and they just made some jokes about what I might write about them which I assured them would be all good, lol. I'm glad they put you to work filling those bowls with Goldfish crackers. :)
ReplyDeleteSounds like the facilitator had an excellent grasp on the group and how to move it forward. I'm wondering, do the participants ever choose what they want to read, or is it always decided by the facilitator?
ReplyDeleteWonderful observations! It sounds like very well run and facilitated book club! Also, so jealous that you can work with Kay! I was in a YA for adults book club with her while I was in grad school and she was such an inspiring, wonderful person. Full points!
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